Strong Independent Women: Quit Driving Men Away
Helps strong women keep their strength and stop accidentally driving good men away.
Accomplished, independent women who are excellent at everything except finding and keeping the right man.
Written by Shelby Haugen from her own experience of being raised to be strong, driven, and independent, then discovering that the same "masculine mask" that made her successful at work was quietly pushing men away. It explains the science of attraction, what men really want and need, and how men communicate, so a woman can balance her strength with her feminine energy.
What changes
- Understands why the traits that make her successful at work can create a masculine mask in dating
- Knows what polarity is and how to create chemistry instead of competition
- Recognizes subtle habits that emasculate a man, and what to do instead
- Understands what men want and need, and how she makes a man feel
- Communicates in a way men hear: less hinting, clearer asks, healthier venting
Every module
Module 1Week 1
Introduction
Shelby's story and how she got a masculine mask, why we all need love and connection, the modern dating dilemma, what men really want, and what it means to be feminine.
The Story · We all need love and connection · Modern Dating Dilemma · What do men really want · The solution, what does it mean to be feminine
Module 2Week 2
The Science of Attraction
How to create chemistry, polarity and depolarization, and emasculation: the subtle ways a woman takes over a man's role and loses his attraction.
How to create chemistry · Polarity · Depolarization · Emasculation
Module 3Week 3
Masculine vs. Feminine
The traits on each side, what a masculine man really is, and what feminine energy looks like in practice.
Masculine vs Feminine · Masculine Men · Feminine
Module 4Week 4
What Men Want
What men want in a partner and how a woman makes a man feel, which matters more to him than most women realize.
What men want · How you make a man feel
Module 5Week 5
Communication
The science of how men process language, hinting, venting, gossip, and drama, and how to get what she needs without a fight.
Science · Hinting · Venting · Storytelling · Gossip · Drama
- 5 modules, one unlocked each week
- Written in Shelby's own voice
- The first module is a free preview
- Every lesson narrated: read it or listen to it
- A worksheet for every module, online or printable
- A private discussion on every lesson, plus "Ask your matchmaker"
- Weekly emails from your business name when each module opens
Your female clients often tell you the men they meet are "intimidated" or "not enough." This program gives them a new lens, and gives you a way to coach them on what you see without having that hard conversation yourself.
Include it for a one-time $49 per client (every program included), or sell it at your own price (minimum $199); we keep 30% of each sale (at least $49), plus card processing. Attraction Lab sells it for $199.
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