For men · 4 modules · 15 lessons

Approaching Beautiful Women

Walk up, start the conversation, and get her number: the dating playbook for meeting women in real life.

Most men never meet the women they want because they never say hello. This program fixes that.

You’ll get your head right first (approach anxiety, social proof, and body language), then learn exactly how to read her signals, walk up, banter, keep the conversation going, and close with her number. Then the push-pull method to keep her interested, and what to do after the approach so it turns into a date.

This is for you if
  • You see a woman you would love to meet, and you never say hello.
  • Apps are not working and you want to meet women in real life.
  • You freeze up, run out of things to say, or never ask for the number.
What it will teach you
  1. How to beat approach anxiety and walk over before you talk yourself out of it
  2. Where to meet women, and how to read whether she is interested before you approach
  3. What to say first, how to banter, and how to keep the conversation moving
  4. How to get her number and turn it into a real date
  5. Push-pull: the tease and chase that keeps her interested
  6. Texting between the number and the first date, and between dates
What you get
  • 15 lessons in 4 modules, one module a week
  • Every lesson to read or listen to
  • A worksheet for each module, interactive or printable
  • Key takeaways and research sources
  • The Signs of Interest checklist
  • The "You Buy Where You Shop" exercise
  • Private questions answered, plus the member community
$149One paymentLifetime access
30-day money-back guarantee. Email us within 30 days of buying and we'll refund you in full. No questions.
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What's inside

Module 1: Mindset and PrepModule 1Mindset and Prep3 lessons
  1. IntroductionFree preview
  2. Approach Anxiety & Dating Mentality
  3. Pickup Body Language & Social Proof
Module 2: The ApproachModule 2The Approach9 lessons
  1. Approaching & Meeting Women
  2. ✎ You Buy Where You Shop
  3. Signs of Interest/ Approachability
  4. The Approach/ Pickup
  5. Approaching Hot Women
  6. Banter
  7. Pickup Conversation
  8. Closing a Pickup & Getting her Contact Information
  9. Key Points
Module 3: Push-PullModule 3Push-Pull1 lessons
  1. Push-Pull
Module 4: After the ApproachModule 4After the Approach2 lessons
  1. Post-Pickup Communication
  2. Texting Between Dates

Why Attraction Lab

01

Built for relationships

Most dating advice for men is about getting more numbers. Our flagship is about finding the right woman and keeping her. Meeting women has its own program.

02

Science, not opinion

Lessons draw on Dr. David Buss's work on what men and women look for, and on research from Gottman, Aron, and others, with sources listed.

03

One price

Coaching memberships charge every month, and live bootcamps run into the thousands. You pay once and keep access for months.

04

A father and daughter

Vern and Shelby Haugen built Attraction Lab in 2015 and teach both sides: what men need to know about women, and what women need to know about men.

05

Read it or listen

Every lesson can be read or played as audio, with diagrams, worksheets, and a weekly pace that makes it stick.

06

You are not alone

Ask a private question and get a real answer, or talk it through with other members in the community.

Common questions

Is this about tricks or pickup lines?

No lines to memorize. It teaches the mindset, timing, and conversation skills to meet women naturally, with respect.

I'm shy. Will this work for me?

It was written for shy men. The first module is entirely about approach anxiety and the right mindset, before you ever say hello.

How does this fit with the Men's Attraction Program?

This one is about meeting women. The Men's Attraction Program is about attraction, dating, and building a relationship once you have. Many men take both.

Is this a subscription?

No. One payment. No monthly charges.

What if it's not for me?

Then you get your money back. Email us within 30 days of buying and we'll refund you in full. No questions.

Can I try it first?

Yes. The first lessons are a free preview. Start reading before you buy.

Is it private?

Yes. Your answers to exercises and worksheets are private. In the community, you choose the name other members see.

What if I have a question?

Every lesson has an "Ask" button. Send a private question, or post it to the community.

Approaching Beautiful Women

Walk up, start the conversation, and get her number: the dating playbook for meeting women in real life.

30-day money-back guarantee. Email us within 30 days of buying and we'll refund you in full. No questions.